Honest Answers from Real Men

With the help of some pretty awesome men I was able to compile a list of the views men have when it comes to women. Some answers were pretty surprising to me, and it was nice to hear honest answers from real men.

     1. Do you want a woman to be         completely dependent?

 
No. If she is financially dependent that is great, especially if she always wants to shop and get her hair and nails done. In my opinion, men want a woman to depend on them for certain things, but not everything.

2. Does a woman's physical appearance turn you on or off? Examples: Clothing, makeup, hair, and weight.
 
Yes, they want her to look good for them but they do understand when she doesn't on those days that she is busy working around the house or taking care of the children.

3. Would you be ok with your wife being more successful than you or make more money?
 
Yes. That one surprised me; I have always heard that men wanted to be the bread winners in the relationship.

4. Is communication really THAT important to you?
 
Yes. Another shocker! I just assumed my husband would rather me hush than actually have a conversation. I'm sure there is a difference in communicating and nagging...must remember that!!

5. How often do you want intimacy?
 
Drum rolls please.....Any chance they can, unless they are tired from work. Let’s be honest, no surprise there.

6. Do you NEED affection the same way women do?
 
Yes. They enjoy cuddling and need physical touch. They may not need as much as women do but they do need it more than we may think.

7. If your wife ever cheated on you would you stay with her? 

 
No. They each said that is something they could not and would not tolerate.

8. How do you feel about men and women being friends? 

 
The consensus was that it was fine as long as they were friends with their spouse too. They however said they would not be ok with their wives meeting alone with another man, friend or not.

9. How often do you want to hear your wife tell you how proud she is of you?
 
Every single day!

10. What is the first thing that attracts you to a woman?

Her appearance, meaning how she is put together and the confidence she carries. 

It was nice to hear the difference in what my answers would have been had I been asked referring to men. I was also pleased to find out that when it comes to communication and affection men and woman are similar. It goes to show that we all want to feel loved and wanted.