Wives, if you aren't holding your husband's hand, wrapping your arms around him daily, or kissing him at least once a day you are doing something wrong.
It is human nature to feel loved and wanted, especially by your spouse. Once that feeling is gone you run into a whole new set of problems. Affection can be shown with hugs, kissing, saying "I love you", and showing you've taken the time to do something special for the other person. I crave affection and I'm sure I'm not alone. You may be shocked at just how much your relationship can benefit from just one simple gesture.
1. Touch Put your gentle hands on him as much as possible. Hold his hand, rub his back and shoulders, hug him tightly.
2. Steal kisses
Giving your husband a peck on the cheek or lips when he leaves for work is more than likely just habit, something you've always done since day one. When you're near him grab his face and give him an unexpected kiss on the lips or forehead.
3. Simple gestures
There are so many five second gestures you can do to show your husband you love him. Leave a note on his windshield or in his suitcase if he travels, send him a loving text, pour him a cup of coffee in the morning, the list goes on and on. It's the small things like these that go a long way.
4. Appreciate him
Tell him how proud you are of him and how much you appreciate everything he does for you and your family. Let him know how much you still love him.
5. Time
Most importantly, make time for one another! Schedule a date night, if you don't have much time make it simple. Grab a cup of coffee if you only have a few minutes to spare. Find time for each other and put the cell phones away!!! Focus on the person sitting right in front of you and enjoy their company.
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