My Rants For The Day

Ok, I may make some mad but let me begin by saying this...

If anything I say stings in some way then that isn't my fault, it's your own guilt talking to you. I need to get some stuff off my chest and while it isn't everything, these are a few at the top of my list. Now let me begin my rant. :)

Women, if you present yourself in a certain way you are going to attract what you put out there. Show some class and respect for yourself or stop complaining about how men disrespect you and use you. 

Men, if you have a rare gem at home don't go looking for some dirty little stone that others can easily pick up. In other words...don't fall for the nastiness walking around out there. Protect your gem before it gets taken by someone who knows the true value of it. A truly beautiful woman isn't going to just let any man near her jewels. 

Never, ever complain about your spouse to the opposite sex...they will use that as ammo and strike!! You are handing them your weaknesses and allowing them to use it to their advantage. 

When someone flirts with you and you feel the urge to flirt back, pick up the phone and say those sweet things to your husband or wife instead. When was the last time you called your wife beautiful or your husband handsome? If you can't remember, then right now is the perfect time to do so. 

If your relationship is a secret they are ashamed of you. You are NOT the exception to the rule, no matter how much they try to convince you otherwise. 

When you start deleting texts or hiding secrets from your spouse you are already in too deep. If you're telling yourself "it's just a friend" why not let your spouse keep your phone for a day. Bet you change your tune then. 

If you say you're sorry, MEAN IT!! SHOW IT!! Otherwise, remove that word from your vocabulary because you don't know what it means to be truly sorry. 

Before you cheat think about everyone your actions will impact...especially your children! Is it worth it?!  

You are not the victim if you have an affair with a married man or woman. The betrayed spouse is the victim, not you!! 

If you have had an affair you better be doing everything in your power to show your spouse you are remorseful. If they want to reconcile with you, be glad they are willing to work it out with you after all the pain you have caused them. Be sympathetic and patient to their feelings, you are the one that put them in that state. 

Do not blame the "other man/woman" for your actions. You chose to flirt with disaster and step outside of your marriage. Take responsibility for what YOU did. 

Why is it that we always want more than what we have? I say "we" because lets face it...at some point we want more, whether it be money, love, affection, attention or approval. When we aren't getting what we want we look for it in all the wrong places. 


Lastly....

What goes through a person's head when they try and destroy the lives of others??? Are they that unhappy with their own lives that they feel justified in wrecking someone else's? I know what it is...they are cold-hearted, mean and just plain selfish! In no way are they a "good" person. If they were they wouldn't be so nasty! Normal people do not go around destroying the lives of others. 


What goes around comes around. I am a firm believer in karma...good and bad. People get what they dish out, eventually everything comes full circle and some of us will be beyond blessed while others will live a life of regrets and sorrow that they have caused.  

Ahhh....I feel better now. :)